Do You Want To Be Right Or Happy
Do you want to be right or happy. And of course they admit that it isnt working. Just sitting there still looking into the distance shoulders down a frown on his face. Now you cling on to the thoughts and beliefs in your head.
Couples counseling is about circular patterns of perception emotion and behavior between two parties. How many times have you heard the question would you rather be right or happy Its always made me a little nuts. If only my partner would listen to me shehe would see that I am right This is an attitude that most of us can relate to.
Youre walking into the living room and your child is sitting on the floor. Happiness as well as joy are in direct correlation with peace and contentment. Do You Want to be Right or Happy.
Do You Want to be Right or Happy. So the burning question about my priorities being right or being happy really brings me up short and reminds me that trying to be right all the time robs me of happiness serenity and energy. Good people do very bad annoying and hurtful things and it is important for both parties to understand there is a difference between disliking the person and disliking the actionThis is why name-calling and character attacks should be left out of the discussion as well as avoiding the Everything but the kitchen sink effect where one or both of you go down a.
How many of you have ever felt. This is one of the biggest lessons that I learned in life. Many conflicts occur because of a need to be right or a need to be not-wrong.
The teacher shared this helpful quote. Being happy gives you the opportunity to learn from life instead of shutting down by having to be right. The true meaning of life is to plant trees under whose shade you do not expect to sit.
This reminds a Sanskrit shloka which Bhuvaneshwar Dharmalinshgam recently shared. Because quite frankly most times I say right please.
Do You Want to be Right or Happy.
Phil ask a guest Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy Of course everyone says they want to be happy but they continue defending what they have been doing. Not saying anything when you. I have such a need to control things and be right all the time. How many of you have ever felt. Since were unwilling to let go of certain things we literally poison our minds and hearts and speak words. The teacher shared this helpful quote. Answer 1 of 22. I used to believe that uncertainty had no place in my world if I wanted to be happy. Do we want to be right or be happy.
When we want to be right rather than happy we make the problems last longer than they need to. How is that working for you is the next question Dr. Because quite frankly most times I say right please. Many conflicts occur because of a need to be right or a need to be not-wrong. If you are coming to therapy in order for an arbitrator to determine who is right forget it. At first it didnt necessarily make sense to me. Growing up we believed that the way things were in our family was the way things were in the world.
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